You ever hate that your sex life is bland? There’s no real definition for vanilla sex besides boring. …

If you’ve ever watched porn you’ve probably seen a woman squirting. It’s usually depicted as an over the top event that’s a lot louder than it needs to be. Squirting is usually described as the female equivalent to a man cumming but it’s actually not.

First off, a woman can…

You know those couples that don’t understand how to do anything apart? The ones who basically live as their partner’s shadows and never grow out of the honeymoon phase? Except when the relationship runs its course and it crashes and burns.

I know I have. I’ve been in that relationship…

Life is hard. I know this, you know this, and that’s why we’ll do our best to avoid emotional labor where we can. In today’s society we already have to navigate economic instability, political instability, and a planet that just seems to be perpetually on fire. With that kind of…

Let me start off by saying I like porn. I write about sex on the occasion so yeah, I enjoy when other people enjoy themselves. However, I’m also very aware of the fact that porn is often not a safe place.

We recently saw the exodus of popular sites like…

I don’t have a lot of patience for terrible people. Terrible by my own standards tends to be racist/homophobic/manipulative or just genuinely not a good fit for my personality type people. I’m not trying to be rude about it, but I will remove myself from a situation if I don’t…

I’ve come to realize that I take time to adjust to change. I feel like a cat, spurning the world around me because things like schedule or accessibility have inevitably changed. When my work schedule changed it took me a week to be able to get back into doing anything…

Nobody wants to hear they’re bad at sex. We’d all like to be the Fabios of our own stories being dreamt about across the nation but for most of us that isn’t it. Instead we have to live with Expectations. From magazines to videos everyone has something to say about…