There’s something super hot about imagining our bodies together in the shower. In the movies it’s all about glistening skin, heavy panting, and nothing to focus on but you and your partner. In reality there’s all kinds of things that get in the way — it’s a little too intimate…

My generation is the generation of depression and self awareness. Millennials are the chosen group born into the modern age of discovery. As we become more and more self aware, technology has allowed us to acknowledge and connect over all the ways life has simply sucked. For me, the things…

Is this obvious? Does attraction somehow automatically provide you permission to be a stain of society? Apparently so. Or at least according to Hollywood it does. Time and time again we see “sex addiction” as the cause for horrendous behavior. …

You ever hate that your sex life is bland? There’s no real definition for vanilla sex besides boring. …

If you’ve ever watched porn you’ve probably seen a woman squirting. It’s usually depicted as an over the top event that’s a lot louder than it needs to be. Squirting is usually described as the female equivalent to a man cumming but it’s actually not. First off, a woman can…

You know those couples that don’t understand how to do anything apart? The ones who basically live as their partner’s shadows and never grow out of the honeymoon phase? Except when the relationship runs its course and it crashes and burns. I know I have. I’ve been in that relationship…

Life is hard. I know this, you know this, and that’s why we’ll do our best to avoid emotional labor where we can. In today’s society we already have to navigate economic instability, political instability, and a planet that just seems to be perpetually on fire. With that kind of…

Let me start off by saying I like porn. I write about sex on the occasion so yeah, I enjoy when other people enjoy themselves. However, I’m also very aware of the fact that porn is often not a safe place. We recently saw the exodus of popular sites like…

I don’t have a lot of patience for terrible people. Terrible by my own standards tends to be racist/homophobic/manipulative or just genuinely not a good fit for my personality type people. I’m not trying to be rude about it, but I will remove myself from a situation if I don’t…