They say love is messy, love is blind. They say if they come back it’s true love. Sure, maybe in the movies. Real life isn’t a cycle of emotional abuse, ghosting, or cheating. At least it’s not supposed to be, but real life didn’t get the memo. …

If you’ve been on the internet in the past couple of months you’ve probably seen strong opinions on the Johnny Depp versus Amber Heard case. These opinions can be tweets, Facebook updates or most egregiously, the stan video format that has been dominating TikTok. Fans of Depp have taken to…

There’s something super hot about imagining our bodies together in the shower. In the movies it’s all about glistening skin, heavy panting, and nothing to focus on but you and your partner. In reality there’s all kinds of things that get in the way — it’s a little too intimate…

My generation is the generation of depression and self awareness. Millennials are the chosen group born into the modern age of discovery. As we become more and more self aware, technology has allowed us to acknowledge and connect over all the ways life has simply sucked. For me, the things…

Is this obvious? Does attraction somehow automatically provide you permission to be a stain of society? Apparently so. Or at least according to Hollywood it does. Time and time again we see “sex addiction” as the cause for horrendous behavior. …

You ever hate that your sex life is bland? There’s no real definition for vanilla sex besides boring. …

If you’ve ever watched porn you’ve probably seen a woman squirting. It’s usually depicted as an over the top event that’s a lot louder than it needs to be. Squirting is usually described as the female equivalent to a man cumming but it’s actually not. First off, a woman can…

You know those couples that don’t understand how to do anything apart? The ones who basically live as their partner’s shadows and never grow out of the honeymoon phase? Except when the relationship runs its course and it crashes and burns. I know I have. I’ve been in that relationship…

Life is hard. I know this, you know this, and that’s why we’ll do our best to avoid emotional labor where we can. In today’s society we already have to navigate economic instability, political instability, and a planet that just seems to be perpetually on fire. With that kind of…