I Learned to Be Vocal During Sex

The art of whispering in my partner’s ears is one I’m still really learning to do. I’m not particularly vocal when it comes to sex. I don’t really moan and my soundtrack sounds like you’ve fudged the RCA cables. I’d once been told one of the sexiest things a man has ever done is had a noise complaint from his sexcapades. That doesn’t sound sexy to me — I’d die of second hand embarrassment if I had to answer the door to that.

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Writer, artist, book lover. Shakespeare said “look like the innocent flower but be the serpent under it.” Someone help me be the flower.

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Writer, artist, book lover. Shakespeare said “look like the innocent flower but be the serpent under it.” Someone help me be the flower.

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